Since the Manifesto was published in 1971, social attitudes have improved, (less so in rural communities); and there has been some tinkering with the age of consent, (now 18 for gay men). Apart from this, depressingly little has changed: as you can see from the original aims.
Throughout recorded history, oppressed groups have organised to claim their rights and obtain their needs. Homosexuals, who have been oppressed by physical violence and by ideological and psychological attacks at every level of social interaction, are at last becoming angry.
To you, our gay sisters and brothers, we say that you are oppressed; we
intend to show you examples of the hatred and fear with which straight
society relegates us to the position and treatment of sub-humans, and to
explain their basis. We will show you how we can use our righteous anger
to uproot the present oppressive system with its decaying and constricting
ideology, and how we, together with other oppressed groups, can start to
form a new order, and a liberated life-style, from the alternatives which
we offer.
The oppression of gay people starts in the most basic unit of society, the
family, consisting of the man in charge, a slave as his wife, and their
children on whom they force themselves as the ideal models. The very
form of the family works against homosexuality.
At some point nearly all gay people have found it difficult to cope with
having the restricting images of man or woman pushed on them by their
parents. It may have been from very early on, when the pressures to play
with the 'right' toys, and thus prove boyishness or girlishness, drove
against the child's inclinations. But for all of us this is certainly a problem
by the time of adolescence, when we are expected to prove ourselves
socially to our parents as members of the right sex (or to bring home a
boy/girl friend) and to start being a 'real' (oppressive) young man or a
real' (oppressed) young woman. The tensions can be very destructive.
The fact that gay people notice they are different from other men and
women in the family situation, causes them to feel ashamed, guilty and
failures. How many of us have really dared to be honest with our
parents? How many of us have been thrown out of home? How many of
us have been pressured into marriage, sent to psychiatrists, frightened into
sexual inertia, ostracised, banned, emotionally destroyed -- all by our
parents!
Family experiences may differ widely, but in their education all children
confront a common situation. Schools reflect the values of society in their
formal academic curriculum, and reinforce them in their morality and
discipline. Boys learn competitive, ego-building sports, and have more
opportunity in science, whereas girls are given emphasis on domestic
subjects, needlework, etc. Again, we gays were all forced into a rigid sex
role which we did not want or need. It is quite common to discipline
children for behaving in any way like the opposite sex; degrading titles
like 'cissy' and'tomboy' are widely used.
In the context of education, homosexuality is generally ignored, even
where we know it exists, as in history and literature. Even sex education,
which has been considered a new liberal dynamic of secondary schooling,
proves to be little more than an extension of Christian morality.
Homosexuality is again either ignored, or attacked with moralistic
warnings and condemnations. The adolescent recognising his or her
homosexuality might feel totally alone in the world, or a pathologically
sick wreck.
Formal religious education is still part of everyone's schooling, and our
whole legal structure is supposedly based on Christianity, whose archaic
and irrational teachings support the family and marriage as the only
permitted condition for sex. Gay people have been attacked as
abominable and sinful ever since the beginning of both Judaism and
Christianity, and even if today the Church is playing down these strictures
on homosexuality, its new ideology is that gay people are pathetic objects
for sympathy.
The press, radio, television and advertising are used as reinforcements
against us, and make possible the control of people's thoughts on an
unprecedented scale. Entering everyone's home, affecting everyone's life,
the media controllers, all representatives of the rich, male-controlled
world, can exaggerate or suppress whatever information suits them.
Under different circumstances, the media might not be the weapon of a
small minority. The present controllers are therefore dedicated defenders
of things as they stand. Accordingly, the images of people which they
transmit in their pictures and words do not subvert, but support society's
image of 'normal' man and woman. It follows that we are characterised
as scandalous, obscene perverts; as rampant, wild sex-monsters; as
pathetic, doomed and compulsive degenerates; while the truth is
blanketed under a conspiracy of silence.
Antihomosexual morality and ideology, at every level of society, manifest
themselves in a special vocabulary for denigrating gay people. There is
abuse like 'pansy', 'fairy', 'lesbo' to hurl at men and women who can't or
won't fit stereotyped preconceptions. There are words like 'sick', 'bent'
and 'neurotic' for destroying the credence of gay people. But there are no
positive words. The ideological intent of our language makes it very clear
that the generation of words and meanings is, at the moment, in the
hands of the enemy. And that so many gay people pretend to be straight,
and call each other 'butch dykes' or 'screaming queens', only makes that
fact the more real.
The verbal attack on men and women who do not behave as they are
supposed to, reflects the ideology of masculine superiority. A man who
behaves like a woman is seen as losing something, and a woman who
behaves like a man is put down for threatening men's enjoyment of their
privileges.
If our upbringing so often produces guilt and shame, the experience of an
adult gay person is oppressive in every aspect. In their work situation, gay
people face the ordeal of spending up to fifty years of their lives
confronted with the antihomosexual hostility of their fellow employees.
A direct consequence of the fact that virtually all employers are highly
privileged heterosexual men, is that there are some fields of work which
are closed to gay people, and others which they feel some compulsion to
enter. A result of this control for gay women is that they are perceived as
a threat in the man's world. They have none of the sexual ties of
dependence to men which make most women accept men as their
'superiors'. They are less likely to have the bind of children, and so there
is nothing to stop them showing that they are as capable as any man, and
thus deflating the man's ego, and exposing the myth that only men can
cope with important jobs.
We are excluded from many jobs in high places where being married is
the respectable guarantee, but being homosexual apparently makes us
unstable, unreliable security risks. Neither, for example, are we allowed
the job of teaching children, because we are all reckoned to be
compulsive, child-molesting maniacs.
There are thousands of examples of people having lost their jobs due to
it becoming known that they were gay, though employers usually contrive
all manner of spurious 'reasons'.
There occurs, on the other hand, in certain jobs, such a concentration
of gay people as to make an occupational ghetto. This happens, for
women, in the forces, ambulance driving, and other uniformed
occupations: and for men, in the fashion, entertainment and theatrical
professions, all cases where the roles of 'man' and 'woman' can perhaps
be underplayed or even reversed.
If you live in Scotland or Ireland; if you are under 21, or over 21 but
having sex with someone under 21; if you are in the armed forces or the
merchant navy; if you have sex with more than one person at the same
time -- and you are a gay male, you are breaking the law.
The 1967 Sexual Offences Act gave a limited licence to adult gay men.
Common law however can restrict us from talking about and publicising
both male and female homosexuality by classing it as 'immoral'. Beyond
this there are a whole series of specific minor offences. Although 'the act'
is not illegal, asking someone to go to bed with you can be classed as
'importuning for an immoral act', and kissing in public is classed as
'public indecency'.
Even if you do not get into any trouble, you will find yourself
hampered by the application of the law in your efforts to set up home
together, to raise children, and to express love as freely as straight people
may do.
The practice of the police in 'enforcing' the law makes sure that
cottagers and cruisers will be zealously hunted, while queer-bashers may
be apprehended, half-heartedly, after the event.
On 25 September 1969, a man walked onto Wimbledon Common. We
know the common to be a popular cruising ground, and believe the man
to have been one of our gay brothers. Whether or not this is the case, the
man was set upon by a group of youths from a nearby housing estate, and
literally battered to death with clubs and boots. Afterwards, a boy from
the same estate said: 'When you're hitting a queer, you don't think you're
doing wrong. You think you're doing good. If you want money off a
queer, you can get it off him -- there's nothing to be scared of from the
law, 'cause you know they won't go to the law'. (Sunday Times, 7/2/71)
Since that time, another man has been similarly murdered on
Hampstead Heath. But murder is only the most extreme form of violence
to which we are exposed, not having the effective means of protection.
Most frequently we are 'rolled' for our money, or just beaten up; and this
happens to butch-looking women in some districts.
One way of oppressing people and preventing them getting too angry
about it, is to convince them, and everyone else, that they are sick. There
has hence arisen a body of psychiatric 'theory' and 'therapy' to deal with
the 'problems' and 'treatment' of homosexuality.
Bearing in mind what we have so far described, it is quite
understandable that gay people get depressed and paranoid; but it is also,
of course, part of the scheme that gay people should retreat to
psychiatrists in times of trouble.
Operating as they do on the basis of social convention and prejudice,
NOT scientific truth, mainstream psychiatrists accept society's prevailing
view that the male and female sex roles are 'good' and 'normal', and try
to adjust people to them. If that fails, patients are told to 'accept
themselves' as 'deviant'. For the psychiatrist to state that homosexuality
was perfectly valid and satisfying, and that the hang-up was society's
inability to accept that fact, would result in the loss of a large proportion
of his patients.
Psychiatric 'treatment' can take the form either of mind-bending
'psychotherapy', or of aversion therapy which operates on the crude
conditioning theory that if you hit a person hard enough, he'll do what
you want. Another form of 'therapy' is chemically induced castration,
and there is a further form of 'treatment' which consists in erasing part of
the brain, with the intent (usually successful) of making the subject an
a sexual vegetable.
This 'therapy' is not the source of the psychiatrist's power, however.
Their social power stems from the facile and dangerous arguments by
which they contrive to justify the preiudice that homosexuality is bad or
unfortunate, and to mount this fundamental attack upon our right to do
as we think best. In this respect, there is little difference between the
psychiatrist who says: 'From statistics we can show that homosexuality is
connected with madness', and the one who says: 'Homosexuality is
unfortunate because it is socially rejected'. The former is a dangerous
idiot -- he cannot see that it is society which drives gay people mad. The
second is a pig because he does see this, but sides consciously with the
oppressors.
That psychiatrists command such credence and such income is
surprising if we remember the hysterical disagreements of theory and
practice in their field, and the fact that in formulating their opinions, they
rarely consult gay people. In fact, so far as is possible, they avoid talking
to them at all, because they know that such confrontation would wreck
their theories.
The ultimate success of all forms of oppression is our self-oppression.
Self-oppression is achieved when the gay person has adopted and
internalised straight people's definition of what is good and bad.
Self-oppression is saying: 'When you come down to it, we are abnormal'. Or
doing what you most need and want to do, but with a sense of shame and
loathing, or in a state of disassociation, pretending it isn't happening;
cruising or cottaging not because you enjoy it, but because you're afraid
of anything less anonymous. Self-oppression is saying: 'I accept what I
am', and meaning: 'I accept that what I am is second-best and rather
pathetic'. Self-oppression is any other kind of apology: 'We've been living
together for ten years and all our married friends know about us and
think we're just the same as them'. Why? You're not.
Self-oppression is the dolly lesbian who says: 'I can't stand those butch
types who look like truck drivers'; the virile gay man who shakes his head
at the thought of 'those pathetic queens'. This is self-oppression because
it's just another way of saying: 'I'm a nice normal gay, just like an
attractive heterosexual'.
The ultimate in self-oppression is to avoid confronting straight society,
and thereby provoking further hostility. Self-oppression is saying, and
believing: 'I am not oppressed'.
Gay people are oppressed. As we've just shown, we face the prejudice,
hostility and violence of straight society, and the opportunities open to us
in work and leisure are restricted, compared with those of straight people.
Shouldn't we demand reforms that will give us tolerance and equality?
Certainly we should -- in a liberal-democratic society, legal equality and
protection from attack are the very least we should ask for. They are our
civil rights.
But gay liberation does not just mean reforms. It means a revolutionary
change in our whole society. Is this really necessary? Isn't it hard enough
for us to win reforms within the present society, and how will we engage
the support of straight people if we get ourselves branded as
revolutionaries?
Reforms may make things better for a while: changes in the law can
make straight people a little less hostile, a little more tolerant -- but
reform cannot change the deep-down attitude of straight people that
homosexuality is at best inferior to their own way of life, at worst a
sickening perversion. It will take more than reforms to change this
attitude, because it is rooted in our society's most basic institution -
the Patriarchal family.
We've all been brought up to believe that the family is the source of our
happiness and comfort. But look at the family more closely. Within the
small family unit, in which the dominant man and submissive woman
bring up their children in their own image, all our attitudes towards
sexuality are learned at a very early age. Almost before we can talk,
certainly before we can think for ourselves, we are taught that there are
certain attributes that are 'feminine' and others that are 'masculine' and
that they are God-given and unchangeable. Beliefs learned so young are
very hard to change; but in fact these are false beliefs. What we are taught
about the differences between man and woman is propaganda, not truth.
The truth is that there are no proven systematic differences between
male and female, apart from the obvious biological ones. Male and
female genitals and reproductive systems are different, and so are certain
other physical characteristics, but all differences of temperament,
aptitudes and so on, are the result of upbringing and social pressures.
They are not inborn.
Human beings could be much more various than our constricted
patterns of 'masculine' and 'feminine' permit -- we should be free to
develop with greater individuality. But as things are at present, there are
only these two stereotyped roles into which everyone is supposed to fit,
and most people -- including gay people too -- are apt to be alarmed when
they hear these stereotypes or gender roles attacked, fearing that children
'won't know how to grow up if they have no-one to identify with', or that
'everyone will be the same', i.e. that there will be either utter chaos or
total conformity. There would in fact be a greater variety of models and
more freedom for experimentation, but there is no reason to suppose this
will lead to chaos.
By our very existence as gay people, we challenge these roles. It can
easily be seen that homosexuals don't fit into the stereotypes of masculine
and feminine, and this is one of the main reasons why we become the
object of suspicion, since everyone is taught that these and only these two
roles are appropriate.
Our entire system is built around the patriarchal family and its
enshrinement of these masculine and feminine roles. Religion, popular
morality, art, literature and sport all reinforce these stereotypes. In other
words, this society is a sexist society, in which one's biological sex
determines almost all of what one does and how one does it; a situation
in which men are privileged, and women are mere adjuncts of men and
objects for their use, both sexually and othervise.
Since all children are taught so young that boys should be aggressive
and adventurous, girls passive and pliant, most people do tend to behave
in these ways as they get older, and to believe that other people should do
so too.
So sexism does not just oppress gay people, but all women as well. It is
assumed that because women bear children they should and must rear
them, and be simultaneously excluded from all other spheres of
achievement.
However, if the indoctrination of the small child with these attitudes is
not always entirely successful (if it were, there would be no gay people for
a start), the ideas taken in by the young child almost unconsciously must
be reinforced in the older child and teenager by a consciously expressed
male chauvinism: the ideological expression of masculine superiority.
Male chauvinism is not hatred of women, but male chauvinists accept
women only on the basis that they are in fact lesser beings. It is an
expression of male power and male privilege, and while it's quite possible
for a gay man to be a male chauvinist, his very existence does also
challenge male chauvinism in so far as he rejects his male supremacist role
over women, and perhaps particularly if he rejects 'masculine' qualities.
It is because of the patriarchal family that reforms are not enough.
Freedom for gay people will never be permanently won until everyone is
freed from sexist role-playing and the straight-jacket of sexist rules about
our sexuality. And we will not be freed from these so long as each
succeeding generation is brought up in the same old sexist way in the
patriarchal family.
But why can't we just change the way in which children are brought up
without attempting to transform the whole fabric of society?
Because sexism is not just an accident -- it is an essential part of our
present society, and cannot be changed without the whole society
changing with it. In the first place, our society is dominated at every level
by men, who have an interest in preserving the status quo; secondly, the
present system of work and production depends on the existence of the
patriarchal society. Conservative sociologists have pointed out that the
small family unit of two parents and their children is essential in our
contemporary advanced industrial family where work is minutely
subdivided and highly regulated -- in other words, for the majority very
boring. A man would not work at the assembly line if he had no wife and
family to support; he would not give himself fully to his work without the
supportive and reassuring little group ready to follow him about and gear
itself to his needs, to put up with his ill temper when he is frustrated or
put down by the boss at work.
Were it not also for the captive wife, educated by advertising and
everything she reads into believing that she needs ever more new goodies
for the home, for her own beautification and for the children's well-being,
our economic system could not function properly, depending as it does on
people buying far more manufactured goods than they need. The
housewife, obsessed with the ownership of as many material goods as
possible, is the agent of this high level of spending. None of these goods
will ever satisfy her, since there is always something better to be had, and
the surplus of these pseudo 'necessities' goes hand in hand with the
absence of genuinely necessary goods and services, such as adequate
housing and schools.
The ethic and ideology of our culture has been conveniently summed
up by the enemy. Here is a quotation, intended quite seriously, from an
American psychiatric primer. The author, Dr. Fred Brown, states:
We agree with his description of our society and its values -- but we
reach a different conclusion. We gay men and gay women do deny these
values of our civilisation. We believe that work in an advanced industrial
society could be organised on more humane lines, with each job more
varied and more pleasurable, and that the way society is at present
organised operates in the interests of a small ruling group of straight men
who claim most of the status and money, and not in the interests of the
people as a whole. We also believe that our economic resources could be
used in a much more valuable and constructive way than they are at the
moment -- but that will not happen until the present pattern of male
dominance in our society changes too.
That is why any reforms we might painfully extract from our rulers
would only be fragile and vulnerable; that is why we, along with the
women's movement, must fight for something more than reform.
We must aim at the abolition of the family, so that the sexist,
male supremacist system can no longer be nurtured there.
Yet although this struggle will be hard, and our victories not easily won,
we are not in fact being idealistic to aim at abolishing the family and the
cultural distinctions between men and women. True, these have been with
us throughout history, yet humanity is at last in a position where we can
progress beyond this.
Only reactionaries and conservatives believe in the idea of 'natural
man'. Just what is so different in human beings from the rest of the
animal kingdom is their 'unnaturalness'. Civilisation is in fact our
evolution away from the limitations of the natural environment and
towards its ever more complex control. It is not 'natural' to travel in
planes. It is not 'natural' to take medicines and perform operations.
Clothing and shoes do not grow on trees. Animals do not cook their food.
This evolution is made possible by the development of technology -- i.e. all
those tools and skills which help us to control the natural environment.
We have now reached a stage at which the human body itself, and even
the reproduction of the species, is being 'unnaturally' interfered with (i.e.
improved) by technology. Reproduction used to be left completely to the
uncontrolled biological processes inherited from our animal ancestors,
but modern science, by drastically lowering infant mortality, has made it
unnecessary for women to have more than two or three babies, while
contraceptives have made possible the conscious control of pregnancy and
the freeing of sexuality from reproduction. Today, further advances are on
the point of making it possible for women to be completely liberated from
their biology by means of the development of artificial wombs. Women
need no longer be burdened with the production of children as their main
task in life, and need be still less in the future.
The present gender-role system of 'masculine' and 'feminine' is based
on the way that reproduction was originally organised. Men's freedom
from the prolonged physical burden of bearing children gave them a
privileged position which was then reinforced by an ideology of male
superiority. But technology has now advanced to a stage at which the
gender-role system is no longer necessary.
However, social evolution does not automatically take place with the
steady advance of technology. The gender-role system and the family unit
built around it will not disappear just because they have ceased to be
necessary. The sexist culture gives straight men privileges which, like
those of any privileged class, will not be surrendered without a struggle,
so that all of us who are oppressed by this culture (women and gay
people), must band together to fight it. The end of the sexist culture and
of the family will benefit all women, and all gay people. We must work
together with women, since their oppression is our oppression, and by
working together we can advance the day of our common liberation.
In the final section we shall outline some of the practical steps gay
liberation will take to make this revolution. But linked with this struggle
to change society there is an important aspect of gay liberation that we
can begin to build here and now -- a NEW, LIBERATED LIFE-STYLE which will
anticipate, as far as possible, the free society of the future.
Gay shows the way. In some ways we are already more advanced than
straight people. We are already outside the family and we have already, in
part at least, rejected the 'masculine' or 'feminine' roles society has
designed for us. In a society dominated by the sexist culture it is very
difficult, if not impossible, for heterosexual men and women to escape
their rigid gender-role structuring and the roles of oppressor and
oppressed. But gay men don't need to oppress women in order to fulfil
their own psycho-sexual needs, and gay women don't have to relate
sexually to the male oppressor, so that at this moment in time, the freest
and most equal relationships are most likely to be between homosexuals.
But because the sexist culture has oppressed and distorted our lives too,
this is not always achieved. In our mistaken, placating efforts to be
accepted and tolerated, we've too often submitted to the pressures to
conform to the straight-jacket of society's rules and hang-ups about sex.
Particularly oppressive aspects of gay society are the Youth Cult, Butch
and Femme role-playing, and Compulsive Monogamy.
Straight women are the most exposed in our society to
the commercially manipulated (because very profitable) cult of youth and
'beauty' -- i.e. the conformity to an ideal of 'sexiness' and 'femininity'
imposed from without, not chosen by women themselves. Women are
encouraged to look into the mirror and love themselves because an
obsession with clothes and cosmetics dulls their appreciation of where
they're really at ... until it's too late. The sight of an old woman
bedizened with layers of make-up, her hair tortured into artificial turrets,
provokes ridicule on all sides. Yet this grotesque denial of physical aging
is merely the logical conclusion to the life of a woman who has been
taught that her value lies primarily in her degree of sexual attractiveness.
Gay women, like straight men, are rather less into the compulsive
search for youth, perhaps because part of their rebellion has been the
rejection of themselves as sex objects -- like men they see themselves as
people; as subjects rather than objects. But gay men are very apt to fall
victim to the cult of youth -- those sexual parades in the 'glamorous'
meat-rack bars of London and New York, those gay beaches of the South
of France and Los Angeles haven't anything to do with liberation. Those
are the hang-outs of the plastic gays who are obsessed with image and
appearance. In love with their own bodies, these gay men dread the
approach of age, because to be old is to be 'ugly', and with their youth
they lose also the right to love and be loved, and are valued only if they
can pay. This obsession with youth is destructive. We must all get away
from the false commercial standards of 'beauty' imposed on us by movie
moguls and advertising firms, because the youth/beauty hang-up sets us
against one another in a frenzied competition for attention, and leads in
the end to an obsession with self which is death to real affection or real
sensual love. Some gay men have spent so much time staring at
themselves in the mirror that they've become hypnotised by their own
magnificence and have ended up by being unable to see anyone else.
Many gay men and women needlessly restrict their
lives by compulsive role playing. They may restrict their own sexual
behaviour by feeling that they must always take either a butch or a
femme role, and worse, these roles are transposed to make even more
distorting patterns in general social relationships. We gay men and
women are outside the gender-role system anyway, and therefore it isn't
surprising if some of us --of either sex-- are more 'masculine' and others
more 'feminine'. There is nothing wrong with this. What is bad is when
gay people try to impose on themselves and on one another the masculine
and feminine stereotypes of straight society, the butch seeking to expand
his ego by dominating his/her partner's life and freedom, and the femme
seeking protection by submitting to the butch. Butch really is bad -- the
oppression of others is an essential part of the masculine gender role. We
must make gay men and women who lay claim to the privileges of
straight males understand what they are doing; and those gay men and
women who are caught up in the femme role must realise, as straight
women increasingly do, that any security this brings is more than offset
by their loss of freedom.
We do not deny that it is possible for gay
couples as for some straight couples to live happily and constructively
together. We question however as an ideal, the finding and settling down
eternally with one 'right' partner. This is the blueprint of the straight
world which gay people have taken over. It is inevitably a parody, since
they haven't even the justification of straight couples -- the need to
provide a stable environment for their children (though in any case we
believe that the suffocating small family unit is by no means the best
atmosphere for bringing up children).
Monogamy is usually based on ownership -- the woman sells her
services to the man in return for security for herself and her children -
and is entirely bound up in the man's idea of property; furthermore in our
society the monogamous couple, with or without children, is an isolated,
shut-in, up-tight unit, suspicious of and hostile to outsiders. And though
we don't lay down rules or tell gay people how they should behave in bed
or in their relationships, we do want them to question society's blueprint
for the couple. The blueprint says 'we two against the world', and that
can be protective and comforting. But it can also be suffocating, leading
to neurotic dependence and underlying hostility, the emotional dishonesty
of staying in the comfy safety of the home and garden, the security and
narrowness of the life built for two, with the secret guilt of fancying
someone else while remaining in thrall to the idea that true love lasts a
lifetime -- as though there were a ration of relationships, and to want
more than one were greedy. Not that sexual fidelity is necessarily wrong;
what is wrong is the inturned emotional exclusiveness of the couple which
stunts the partners so they can no longer operate at all as independent
beings in society. People need a variety of relationships in order to
develop and grow, and to learn about other human beings.
It is especially important for gay people to stop copying straight -- we
are the ones who have the best opportunities to create a new life-style and
if we don't, no one else will. Also, we need one another more than
straight people do, because we are equals suffering under an insidious
oppression from a society too primitive to come to terms with the
freedom we represent. Singly, or isolated in couples, we are weak -- the
way society wants us to be. Society cannot put us down so easily if we
fuse together. We have to get together, understand one another, live
together.
Two ways we can do this are by developing consciousness raising
groups and by gay communes.
Our gay communes and collectives must not be mere convenient living
arrangements or worse, just extensions of the gay ghetto. They must be a
focus of consciousness-raising (i.e. raising or increasing our awareness of
our real oppression) and of gay liberation activity, a new focal point for
members of the gay community. It won't be easy, because this society is
hostile to communal living. And besides the practical hang-ups of finding
money and a place large enough for a collective to live in, there are our
own personal hang-ups: we have to change our attitudes to our personal
property, to our lovers, to our day-to-day priorities in work and leisure,
even to our need for privacy.
But victory will come. If we're convinced of the importance of the new
life-style, we can be strong and we can win through.
The long-term goal of the London Gay Liberation Front, which inevitably
brings us into fundamental conflict with the institutionalised sexism of
this society, is to rid society of the gender-role system which is at the root
of our oppression. This can only be achieved by the abolition of the
family as the unit in which children are brought up. We intend to work
for the replacement of the family unit, with its rigid gender-role pattern,
by new organic units such as the commune, where the development of
children becomes the shared responsibility of a larger group of people
who live together. Children must be liberated from the present condition
of having their role in life defined by biological accident; the commune
will ultimately provide a variety of gender-free models.
As we cannot carry out this revolutionary change alone, and as the
abolition of the family and gender roles is also a necessary condition of
women's liberation, we will work to form a strategic alliance with the
women's liberation movement, aiming to develop our ideas and our
practice in close inter-relation. In order to build this alliance, the brothers
in gay liberation will have to be prepared to sacrifice that degree of male
chauvinism and male privilege that they all still possess.
To achieve our long term goal will take many years, perhaps decades.
But if at the moment the replacement of the family by a system of
communes may seem a very long way ahead, we believe that, in the ever
sharpening crisis of western society, the time may come quite suddenly
when old institutions start to crack, and when people will have to seek
new models. We intend to start working out our contribution to these
new models now, by creating an alternative gay culture free from sexism,
and by setting up gay communes. When our communes are firmly
established, we plan to let children grow up in them.
The starting point of our liberation must be to rid ourselves of the
oppression which lies in the head of every one of us. This means freeing
our heads from self-oppression and male chauvinism, and no longer
organising our lives according to the patterns with which we are
indoctrinated by straight society. It means that we must root out the idea
that homosexuality is bad, sick or immoral, and develop a gay pride. In
order to survive, most of us have either knuckled under or pretended that
no oppression exists, and the result of this has been further to distort our
heads. Within gay liberation, a number of consciousness-raising groups
have already developed, in which we try to understand our oppression
and learn new ways of thinking and behaving. The aim is to step outside
the experience permitted by straight society, and to learn to love and trust
one another. This is the precondition for acting and struggling together.
HOW we're oppressed
Family
School
Church
The Media
Words
Employment
The Law
Physical violence
Psychiatry
Self-oppression
WHY we're oppressed
Our values in Western civilisation are founded upon the sanctity of
the family, the right to property, and the worthwhileness of 'getting
ahead'. The family can be established only through heterosexual
intercourse, and this gives the woman a high value.
[Note the way in which woman is appraised as a form of property.]
Property acquisition and worldly success are viewed as distinctly masculine
aims. The individual who is outwardly masculine but appears to
fall into the feminine class by reason ... of his preference for other
men denies these values of our civilisation. In denying them he
belittles those goals which carry weight and much emotional
colouring in our society and thereby earns the hostility of those to
whom these values are of great importance.
We can do it
A new life-style
THE YOUTH CULT
BUTCH AND FEMME
COMPULSIVE MONOGAMY
The way forward
Aims
Free our heads